Since high school, my Mr. and I have talked about the family we would have.  He wanted two kids, while I was fine with an only child.  He or she would be well traveled and cultured, have a head full of wild coily hair, and be super smart.  We had it all planned out.  Then we found out we were pregnant, but in the worst way. After excruciating pain, vomiting, and a trip to the ER, we were faced with an ectopic pregnancy (when the fertilized egg implants in the